The things that I have studied while I have been living in my life - Jake
When I was younger, I was quiet student. Most of my teachers did not even know my name. By the way, only my music teacher knew about me. While our class took the singing test, I showed my ability to sing to him and he was impressed. He gave me extra opportunities to take the exam again. Up till then, I had never sung in front of other people.
Time went by and it was time to go to my military service. Some superior officers had me sing a song while we stood on guard or worked together. At first I was embarrased and felt shy but I was not able to refuse their suggestions. They called them suggestions but really you can see that these were commands. So I sang songs constantly during the time. At that time, I felt bulllied into singing. But now, I am not sure that that was so entirelybad for me becuase now I can sing well.
They also let me perform interesting things. However I was unpleasant because I thought it might hurt my pride. So I said that I didn't know about interestings and then they said that if so, I had to push up until I got any idea. At first I just did it, as 100 times passed, I got up and showed everything that I could show to them. I didn't have choice but to follow their 'command.'
One day I made them laugh, thereupon they treated me very well than contempories of me. So I started to develop the ability about comedy. I always thought that how I could make them laugh.
In the course of one year, I became an interesting person than before. Like that, I could make relationship with colleagues easily. However I didn't command my subordinates to make me laugh. I tried to treat them politely. So I can contact with them even now.
Now I know why I sould treat people who are older or younger than me well and how. The human relationship is an important thing than we think in our society. So making other person to my side is the key to make my life happy and easy.
Time went by and it was time to go to my military service. Some superior officers had me sing a song while we stood on guard or worked together. At first I was embarrased and felt shy but I was not able to refuse their suggestions. They called them suggestions but really you can see that these were commands. So I sang songs constantly during the time. At that time, I felt bulllied into singing. But now, I am not sure that that was so entirelybad for me becuase now I can sing well.
They also let me perform interesting things. However I was unpleasant because I thought it might hurt my pride. So I said that I didn't know about interestings and then they said that if so, I had to push up until I got any idea. At first I just did it, as 100 times passed, I got up and showed everything that I could show to them. I didn't have choice but to follow their 'command.'
One day I made them laugh, thereupon they treated me very well than contempories of me. So I started to develop the ability about comedy. I always thought that how I could make them laugh.
In the course of one year, I became an interesting person than before. Like that, I could make relationship with colleagues easily. However I didn't command my subordinates to make me laugh. I tried to treat them politely. So I can contact with them even now.
Now I know why I sould treat people who are older or younger than me well and how. The human relationship is an important thing than we think in our society. So making other person to my side is the key to make my life happy and easy.
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